I thought this was good advice. I'd even go so far as to say that these techniques might work with many other relationships, not just a spouse. You never know how someone is going to behave or react, but most everyone eventually responds to care and concern (basically some form of love) if you can summon the strength to keep at it in spite of their unkindness.
I actually read the comments (so far) on this article. Which I rarely do. People are hard. And they can be unkind (pretty much everyone has been unkind to some degree at some point in their lives - we're all learning and growing). I still believe her tips are valuable whichever ones I choose to use. I want to believe there is essential goodness in everyone. Even when finding it can sometimes be a challenge.
I'll keep looking. I'm determined to not let that dang-mean-Adversary win.
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